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[quote=Anonymous]OP, do we share a MIL? This is exactly something mine would do. Though through slow slow conditioning over YEARS my DH has gotten better at spotting when she is being tit for tat. She will sometimes ONLY plan things because she heard we did something with my family and feels the need to "get her share". Why does your DH think this trip *needs* to happen? Did he know before the Cali trip that that trip was the one vacation for the year? I sometimes find giving in to these things easier than fighting them, even if it's annoying. However, I'd make it clear there wouldn't be any more traveling, say for the holidays, that wasn't already in the budget. Or if you normally travel to FL for Tday, this trip means you won't do that. [/quote]
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