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[quote=Anonymous]Oh I would be really angry but I'd need to chill because 1. you have not gotten buy-in from your husband on your vision for your kids 2. you do too much and insulate him from the demands of kids enrichment (and probably everything else) 3. men rarely have the same interest in giving kids the right inputs and experiences 4. and in my observation, women are more attuned to the needs of friend cultivating among kids. 5. since it was your thing, you should have gotten your kid's best friend's mom to drive your kid and just leave your husband out of it. (His inability to 'get' the route made it clear he was not into it and likely to drop the ball. I know this is all a PITA but address your own anxieties about the kid's needs, and don't transfer them to your husband. He has other kid-rearing things he cares about (that you probably don't care a whit about and that's fine, that's how parenting SHOULD work.) [/quote]
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