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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I totally get it. My DH and I don't have major problems whatsoever, but I often feel we'd both technically be better, fitter. Maybe a little happier if we had to try a little harder, or had the space to do so. Like we hold each other back. I think it's just temporary because our kids are young. Personal, alone time gets trumped by "finally! We can talk together!!" And we don't get around to individual personal development and goals.[/quote] Also, sometimes we each separately get motivated to start something new. A in I'll think 'I WILL go to this class, or exercise, or go shop for my hobby." And I get motivated. And separately the next week he'll do the same. But for both of us it's short lived. He doesn't try to hold me back but if his mood, or if my mood, is lazy/cuddly/even dysfunctional (binge tv), we can really affect each other negatively. [/quote]
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