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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My point is I will be a healthy, confident, athletic person, all of which had slipped over the past couple of years. Of course I should be that way regardless, and I have no desire to be back on the market. I have a desire to be all those things for my wife and family, but if that's not enough for her, well, I will move on. At my lowest point after her affair I did not feel strong or empowered at all, which I am guessing many betrayed spouses can relate to. [/quote]

I agree... but, your wife's affair will probably have nothing to do with you being "enough" for her.

She had an affair because she is missing something inside her. If you spend your whole life trying to fill a void in somebody else's life it will be a life wasted.

Your wife needs to figure out why she feels empty and fill that emptiness on her own. Then she may be somebody worth, being strong for.

I am sorry the affair brought you down, but it did not tell you "you are not good enough" it just told you "you married somebody other than you thought you married". [/quote]

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