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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You owe it to your child to give your marriage every bit of effort. Get a good marriage therapist who will work hard with you and your husband to keep it together. He doesn't even need to be an immediate participant. You can start first if that more doable. What's more important to you than that? [/quote]
What about the mental health  of mom? Her quality of life? Should she be a miserable mom in an unhappy marriage for the sake of a child? You do realize this leads to depression and anxiety hence the reason some many couples around here are on meds. Adults don't realize children can feel unhappiness in a home. Don't underestimate the emotional intelligence of a child nor ignore it. There is no rule out that once marry give up happiness  for your child. This only exist in the Dcum motherhood world. A good nurturing home is a home where everyone is happy and hence the emotional fullfilment of a family. Faking happiness doesn't work. Your children learn coping skills and inner strength watching you as a parent, becareful what you teach them or they'll end up in a miserable marriage just like mom and dad.[/quote]

A lot of this is rationalizing the effect of the divorce on the child. Unless it is a truly toxic household ( we don't have this information in OP's case), the children in a divorce suffer. That cannot be denied or rationalized. If you are just vaguely unsatisfied or in a down period of your relationship,you owe it to the children to stick with it. [/quote]

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