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[quote=Anonymous]Good luck OP. I don't think you will ever really be friends, because what you are putting your ex and your children through is not the act of a friend. Why do you want to be friends, beyond being amicable co-parents? Is it to convince yourself that you didn't really hurt him? My mom cheated on my dad and for the past 25 years she has insisted that she, my dad, and her co-cheater are all the best of friends. We're all a big happy family and nobody minds that she cheated. We just don't spend time together because my dad is too busy. It's how she copes with the cognitive dissonance, but it irritates everyone else. It's enough that you cheated and broke up the family. Leave the poor man alone. He can find other friends.[/quote]
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