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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP. 
I am the shy one and the one who is very quiet most of the times.
she is very social. I don't think she has any shyness or awkwardness issues.
In the short period of time she has made quite a few acquaintances. 
she is giving hi-fives to some of the colleagues and goes out for ice cream and lunches.
already added some of them to her facebook....
so this is not related to shyness.

this insensitivity seems only towards me. 
she never notes anything down. 
she keeps coming back with some same questions like where that file is located and that she forgot.

Today as soon as she messaged, I signed out and went offline.
from her desk she can see if I am at my desk or not.
not sure if she understood or was mad about that. 
after some time she started messaging things like "never mind", "I found what I needed..."
She did not come to my desk whole day and she started visiting a colleague who sits next to me.

I think now she has enough knowledge to have more advanced conversations about project work with rest of the team.

I have never told my manager that I am helping her. 
I thought it is an understood fact that we all are going to help the new employee catch up on knowledge.
in hindsight, i think I should have mentioned to my manager that I helping her with the project work.
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