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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who honestly knows if it can be kick-started again, but it's going to take work to even try. If I were you, I'd put in the work before the "functioning but not passionate" marriage turns into the "filled with resentment" marriage. I think this takes more than a date night although you should try that right away. I'd try in all sorts of little ways to work on reconnecting, whether it's alone time at the end of the evening or a weekend afternoon set aside for yourselves. And yes, have sex. I don't care how bored you are by it.  But also pull out the big guns--I'd plan a long vacation with no kids. Kids zap energy. And conversation. And privacy. And. And. Go somewhere really romantic for 7-9 days. Alone. Whatever is romantic for the two of you--whether it's a place like Anse Chastenet in St. Lucia or Banff National Park in Canada. Somewhere where the two of you can do activities together that are fun and remind you each of why you connected in the first place--either something you both like to do or something new you'd both be into. And then have as much vacation sex as possible. Between the talking and the fun and the vacation sex, you should have a good idea at the end of the trip whether it reinvigorated both of you or whether you think you're permanently in the dead zone.[/quote]

+ 1. This plus an action plan of long term change [/quote]

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