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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Posssible other explanation as a guy.. If I'm texting with a person who is my g/f, then I don't mind having other conversations with others as I'm sitting at the phone waiting for her to respond. Maybe it's timed based on that.[/quote]

If I'm texting with my wife anyhow, I'm likely to send other texts (in fact, its the only time I'd initiate a text conversation) with others just because.

It does sound like the total volume is a little troubling. It implies that he doesn't feel like he has other people to talk to about certain issues. It could be something in your relationship (maybe you two are bad at small talk?) or he could not have a good group of male friends. I doubt he has any intent of having an affair, but obviously if he ends up feeling the friend is the only person who understands him in the world and other things get bad in his life, it could end up like that. But I don't think its in your interest to confront him or force him to cut her out, since that will make the problem worse. If you are worried, your options are to break up with him or to try to address the underlying issues (e.g. you two finding more similar interests to talk about, him spending more time with close guy friends, etc.)[/quote]

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