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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife and I have now gone months without sex, for a variety of reasons -- growing apart, clinical depression, etc. Now it seems getting our sex life back on track is much harder than I would have thought. My wife is low-drive to begin with. I feel I need to aggressively, decisively initiate sex and just make it happen, but I fear rejection, further distance and there is definitely an awkward tension. We have had a couple of discussions about sex, which are never easy, but at least we did talk (a month or so ago). Advice?[/quote] You said it yourself: aggressively, decisively initiate sex. That is exactly what you must do. If she "rejects" tonight, you just calmly ask her to plan her day tomorrow to ensure enough time and energy for sex tomorrow night. It is not a rejection, it is an opportunity to book a next day appointment. Stop having discussions about sex. THAT is awkward, way more awkward that just having sex.[/quote]
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