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[quote=Anonymous]DW suffers from BPD. Currently, DD and I are away for July. We had a long planned trip. DW is now angry we are gone. Saturday she was pissed we were not able to talk with her when she called and refused to answer the phone, pick up or text back when we contacted her. We only tried twice more and took the attitude that we left the door open for her to call us back. This morning, I get texts saying she is alone and it is my fault and she hates me for it and wants a divorce. None of this is new. She will behave this way when she is feeling "abandoned," but I am wondering whether there is a positive way to respond to her. When I am physically around, I can deflect or change the subject or somehow work my way around it. I have two choices here: not respond at all or find some way to lovelingly respond and address her fears of abandonment. I really don't know what to say. [/quote]
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