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[quote=Anonymous]Yep. In my experience, guys will let you know when they are into you. I never dated someone who reached out fewer than once or twice a week, who was "really busy at work lately" and had "friends in from out of town" who also turned out to really like me. These are mostly polite excuses and you probably know that deep down. I've also been the one holding a guy at arms' length, but it wasn't calculated to draw him in - it was purely a lack of real interest and excitement.

I was never a big fan of The Rules but after getting burned hard in a serious relationship, I realized a painful truth that made me wish I had not initially pursued him. Not sure if this is a common experience or just mine. Anyway, after my engagement imploded, I realized that my ex didn't truly love, respect, or admire me. He was just along for the ride. An introvert who hadn't had a relationship in a while, he saw that I was interested in him and was just happy that a pretty-enough, smart-enough woman with a good-enough personality wanted to date him. So even though he did express interest in the early dating stages, I doubt he would have made the first move.[/quote]

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