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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're not weak. You shouldn't care what she thinks. [/quote] We project to others how to see us...if you care about her seeing you as weak - if you get your sense of self from that - she will see you as weak. If you pretty much see yourself as a guy who sacrificed and worked his ass off for his kids, and see that as strong, and reject her judgement of you, then she will see you as strong. Strong==self-validation/confidence. I'm doubtful she sees you as weak though. See a counselor - you don't have to necessarily tell her - but there is no shame in it. Owning up to needing help takes balls and real guts.[/quote]
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