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Reply to "Wife's birthday coming up -- if her ex-affair partner contacts her I am going to lose it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need a plan. My H had an affair, and we are divorcing, but we are amicable... but with that comes rules. OW is done... no contact. We have mutual friends and my H had to go to a work event and she could possibly be there. So we had a plan. If she shows up he leaves, no hi, no glance, just leave. When her friends started to show up, he left. So you can't control him but your W has to tell you and you have to remain calm or she will stop telling you things. [/quote] I don't know how many couples recover if your DW has an affair. I would say the odds are not in your favor. Regardless, if they want to stay in the marriage they have to go above and beyond to regain trust. You will have accept you can't control the AP. It's a big ask of you to recover from this.[/quote]
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