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[quote=Anonymous] Nothing you said shows that the second guy is worse or as bad as the first one. The question is, has your sister made the necessary introspection to find out what flaws she is willing to live with and what flaws she can't handle? Because that's really the crux of the matter: knowing what makes you tick. So you could suggest premarital counseling to make sure that they are both on the same page regarding finances and children and religion and education of their children and stuff. But you can't really criticize her choice of spouse, particularly if his worse traits are "shlubby and boring"! One more thing. Going into a marriage with a cool assessment of the fit is perhaps better than marrying while head over heels in love, ie hormonal and not thinking straight. [/quote]
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