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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anything you say, she'll remember forever. If she marries him, she'll remember that she married the guy you thought wasn't good enough for her. When she has kids, she'll remember you think their father wasn't good enough for her. If they get divorced, she'll remember you never thought he was good enough for her and it might affect her reaching out to you.

What it won't do is make her stop being in love with him or change her plans.

Will it be worth having said it knowing it likely won't change anything? Not to mention, you don't know what's in her head or heart. Being super in love didn't help her last time. Maybe she needs a more rational, practical kind of love now. [/quote]

well said![/quote]

Look, its totally possible this will be a disaster. I think sometimes women "settle" and are doing neither themselves nor their new husband a favor, because they form a permanent view of their husband as some sort of "ok on paper but boring" chap, as you apparently have done with him. Then their marriage stinks, and that's sad. But, there's absolutely nothing you can do about it, so preserve your relationship with your sister instead, and butt out.[/quote]

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