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[quote=Anonymous]I've posted on here before, I believe the title was "I hate my mother" or something along those lines. I'm 27 and we just have an awful relationship, plain and simple. Ever since I was about 14, she's been both physically and emotionally abusive towards me. Since I was 18, I've just strayed from her as I've gotten sick of the emotional abuse. She truly has a mental disorder as sometimes she will be so nice and call me asking to go shopping with her and then other times she will call me to bitch at me about something.

I'm moving to another state in a week and a half and my lease on my old place ended on May 31 so I ended up asking my parents if I could just move back home for a month and they agreed. My plan was to avoid my mother at all costs and just have limited contact with her. It has worked perfectly for the last 4 weeks but all hell broke lose on Monday night. She came home from work in a mood as usual and I went to pack up my laptop and stuff to go to my room so I could just be away from her as I do most nights. I accidentally left my iced tea bottle on the table in the living room and as I'm heading upstairs she starts freaking out on me asking why I left my "shit on the table". I go back and grab it and say "obviously I didn't it on purpose" and it turns into her yelling at me about how I shouldn't be drinking those drinks because they have so many carbs and sugar and whatever. I told her that I'm 27 and don't need her to tell me what I can and can't drink and to please keep her comments to herself and she just started going OFF on me. My dad came in at that moment and he's just staying out of it and literally 5 minutes later I tell her that I'm not going to listen to her be a bitch towards me and that she needs to calm down. I go to take my laptop off the table and walk upstairs and she just comes after me and punches me in the arm and neck. I shoved her away from me because sorry but she's not going to touch me and I said "do NOT put your hands on me." She goes to come at me again and my dad had to come in between us. At this point it turns into a screaming match and I regret giving into her but I was just so distraught and done at that point so I called her some names and then told her "10 more days and I'm out, don't worry!" And went to my room and just started balling. I'm so done with her and the fucked up relationship that we have. All my friends have moms who are like a best friend to them and I have this shitty mother who treats me like shit and I'm just done with her. I haven't spoken to her since Monday night and I don't plan to. I'm going away from Saturday July 2nd until the 5th and then come back and I leave for good on the 9th. Once I move, I just want to cut her off for good. I'm just worried about living here for the next 2 weeks and am just trying my best to stay Away from her and not be around her.  I told my best friend about her punching me and she told me I should hAve called the cops but that would have just escalated things. I don't know what I'm trying to get out of this post, maybe just someone to tell me that I'm making the right decision by cutting her off? Sorry for the long vent. [/quote]

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