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[quote=Anonymous]Where they are having sex is a moot point.  I remember being a teenager.  Having sex at each other's houses when parents werent home. Or were home but were asleep.  Sex in cars.  Sex in the woods. Sex in parks.  Sex in cheap motels sometimes if someone had extra money.  Sex at friends houses...  Teenagers find out a way to have sex.

If I were you, I would support his being safe and responsible vs trying to get him to stop.  He isnt going to stop.  At this point, much better that you are honest with him, and he with you.  At least it is a long-term girlfriend.  Make sure he is going to continue to use condoms.  Even supply them if you have to.  He HAS to use a condom.  Stress how much his life will change if he gets her pregnant.  That can absolutely not happen. If he gets her pregnant he can say goodbye to college, and going out with friends, and living on his own ever...hello to a minimum wage job and supporting his gf and child.  Make that *very* clear to him.  Tell him you won't support them if this happens--you wont pay for college, their living situation, etc.  I mean, yes you likely would, but don't tell him that part.

I would also talk to her parents.  If they *really* are ok with it, is she on the pill?  She should be.  Along with the condoms.[/quote]

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