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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I learned that my 16 year old son has been sexually active for the last couple of months with his girlfriend.

This is not something DH or I approve of.  When asked DS says that he is using a condom and does not intent to stop. He says that it makes him feel really good and makes him closer to girlfriend.  Her parents know and do not have any problems with it.

He is a really good kid, playing sports, good grades, respectful etc. but I really don't want to give the impression that I'm good with this, I am not.

Question is what should we do?  Seems like trying to hammer him would not result in stopping this activity short of full time grounding.  Doing nothing we appear to condone such activity.

Kinda lost on what to do.

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Sure, there are NO consequences on HIM, especially since he's such a good kid -- what about HER? What's HER home-life like? How are HER grades? What are the consequences for HER, especially once that condom breaks or slips off because two teen-age dips hits don't know how to use it correctly? And I take it that they are sneaking around in each other's houses, or do her condoning parents pay for hotel rooms and let them do it in her room?[/quote]

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