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Reply to "googling exes: what's okay, what's problematic"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I wouldn't bring it up because then he will just erase all history. [/quote] OP here. I am struggling with this. On the one hand, I get this tendency to have some control, to see how much, how frequently, this is happening. But there's a part of me that recoils from that--I feel like that will poison our relationship. I want spouse to know because then they will stop doing this on my computer and then maybe I wont be obsessively checking. I know it wont change anything--spouse will think and feel whatever they think and feel, and will continue to seek out information on other devices. I mean, at the end of the day, you cannot control how someone feels, about you or someone else. I feel like I would just keep hurting myself by looking and finding, and not saying anything. [/quote]
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