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Reply to "googling exes: what's okay, what's problematic"
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP. I've been in your spouse's shoes. The ex I googled was in my life for so many years, we always thought we'd end up together and when I got engaged it broke him for a time. I felt his pain more than my joy. I guess I did that more than once. Anyway, sometimes a person is kind of in your veins even if your daily life doesn't reflect that. I have thought of what if of course but that is a mirage. My DH is here, he does the work, he deals with me, I love the real life him and he loves the real life me. It's true that other person is a fantasy. My therapist said maybe it's a good thing. (I did think maybe I need a new therapist when she said that fwiw)[/quote]
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