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[quote=Anonymous]We've gone through similar discussions/life changes since DD was 2 - he's now 3.5 and we finally decided to just go for it. As others have said, there is no perfect time. And now I am worried about secondary infertility and nervous that we waited too long! One thing that helped me was to think that pregnancy is 10 months long, so there'd be plenty of time to get ready once I got pregant. We are 3 months in now, not pregnant yet, and I'm already starting to think we should've begun sooner! I think you really just have to think about how you'd feel either way. I will say, I wanted to get to the point where I wouldn't be upset if it happened right away - I think you have to plan that it might happen right away, you never know - but also assume it could take a few months or longer. [And I wouldn't bother with bloodwork at this point. I doubt any doctor would do anything about it anyway without you at least trying on your own first. I have some things that could potentially make pregnancy difficult and my OB said he wasn't concerned about seeing bloodwork until at least 4 months in...especially since I got pregnant once already.][/quote]
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