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[quote=Anonymous]Having had very irregular cycles, a Dx of PCOS and hormonal imbalances through my 20s, I was told it was unlikely I'd get pregnant without help. Luckily my DH knew that as soon as we were married, I'd want to be casual with BC and let be what would be. At 30yo we ended up pregnant the first month ovulating and DTD...we were overjoyed and a little nervous because it all went fast after that. Fast forward, and we have a 4.5yo and have actively been avoiding conception ever since. Initially we wanted to have some spacing, recovery time etc...then when DD turned 3 the plan was to start TTC, only that coincided with an out of state move, job changes, and general life chaos so we put that plan on hold, saying this would be the magic year. Well, I turned 35yo, and have pretty regular cycles, and we still want another child, BUT it feels like we have another year before we have al our ducks in a row, which means looking to start TTC at 36yo for me. Is this crazy? Should we be starting sooner? I now am worrying about the "what ifs" of it not happening the first month we try. Do we throw caution to the wind and just plan to deal if I were to get pregnant right away? (We have another big move coming up in the fall.) We are serious about TTC, but wouldn't do ART at this point, and would find peace in our singleton...argh, life. [/quote]

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