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[quote=Anonymous]I am frumpy. I'm almost 40, a mom of 2 young kids (baby and toddler), and I have become unfashionable and frumpy because I don't have extra time to spend on my appearance/maintenance/shopping. I've also aged a lot since 35 and have lost my looks. My weight is not the issue--I'm still the same size I was in college (size 6). However, the issues are: 1. My hair--I'm 30% gray, brunette, and if I don't color every 5 weeks my roots are hideous. I don't have time to go every 5 weeks, I usually go once every 4 months, so I always have roots. It's 3 hours in the salon for cut and color so I don't have a lot of time for this and I never color at home. 2. My hairstyle--I can't find a hairstyle that looks good. My hair always looks awful. It's fine, naturally wavy and frizzy, and does not hold a style well. In the summer it's a frizzy mess. I don't have time to style so I let it air dry and it curls in an unflattering way. 3. My clothes aren't that stylish because I don't have a lot of time to shop. I have a few okay items. 4. I have an ugly face. I have a large, unflattering nose, very pale skin, strong features, and I just look harsh in general (the graying hair doesn't help). 5. Makeup--generally I don't bother because I don't have time. I look much better with blush and lipstick though. I feel down about my appearance and frumpiness and I see so many moms who look so put together and stylish and I have no idea where they get the time for this. Any suggestions about how to de-frump and look cute and stylish again?[/quote]
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