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[quote=Anonymous]We're supposed to spend a week with my ILs at the end of July. We initially had plans in early July, but when the late July trip came up, we cancelled the first trip, b/c it was too much money and time with them. MIL insisted on paying for all of us to go on the first trip. DH couldn't object. So that's a total of almost 2 weeks out of July that we'll be spending with them.

I'm pissed. I work 6 - 7 days a week and I work really long hours and have been looking forward to July for months because I know it's going to be slow for me work wise and I wanted to spend the time with my family. But it seems that every single break I get I end up being with my in-laws. Although at times we have a good time with them, my MIL and SIL are really passive aggressive towards me and talk about me behind my back, they hint that I'm not a good wife or mom, so I really just try NOT to see them, but I'm failing at it for this exact reason. They constantly pressure us to get together and they insist on paying when we try to avoid it, and then they lay guilt trips about the money or how we didn't buy so and so a good father's day gift or what the fuck ever.

I'm mad that my husband didn't put his foot down, especially because after discussing the issue a few weeks ago, he had made it seem like he was going to get us out of it. I just found out a few minutes ago that he was too chicken to go against his mom. I'm pissed. [/quote]

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