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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm more upset about the sexual abuse and want him to seek therapy to deal with that trauma.[/quote] Believe it or not, it is possible for someone to get over something and move on. What exactly would he be "dealing with" all these years later? [/quote] If he has not gone to therapy for the abuse... He had not "gotten over" the abuse. He should deal with the feelings he has about being abused, how it negatively affects him now and how he can change those behaviors. OP has not described "issues" there may be none right now. Often having kids triggers the PTSD of CSA. Men generally think they can "handle it" and eventually self destruct.[/quote]
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