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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you deal with it?

We have been to dinner recently with some couples, and on occasion, it occurred to me (the wife made no secret of it) that the wives were under impressed by their husbands.  In one case (not at dinner, obviously) a wife divorced their husband, after he sent her to "grad school" (expensive $50K certificate program that you pay for and they accept you).  Since I am not naming names here, and you (presumably) are not, do you think less of women who berate their husbands, or let them know they are disappointed?  Or are you a wife that feels that way about their husband?  What did/do you do about it?  It seems fairly prevalent, so I am curious.  Maybe it is just certain cultures (I am not pointing fingers, so don't ask me to name it); and the husbands expect it? It seems sad to me. Do you know anyone who does this? [/quote]

I'm not sure what you are asking, OP as your writing style is not coherent.

I will say I'm not a fan of spouses who air their dirty laundry in front of friends and family at  dinners and gatherings.

My H does things that bother me at times,  but I deal with it privately.[/quote]

The post is about DHs that don't live up to what the wife expected, professionally.  That's all.  NBD. [/quote]

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