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Reply to "if you and spouse disagree about a major parenting issue"
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[quote=Anonymous]You pick what is best for the child. If one parent wants to indulge a temper tantrum and one wants to eliminate all expression of emotions, then you meet somewhere in the middle. If one parent wants private and one wants public then you discuss pros and cons. Is child's IQ high enough to warrant the expenditure? Can your finances take the hit? Will public give her a leg up on appreciating diversity? Every single decision is a meeting of the minds. Usually a lot of discussion goes on about philosophy and outcomes. We chose early on to brainwash our kid into going as far away for college as she could get because we think it's a big world out there and she should be part of it. Wanted her to do public because we are very pro public but changed our minds when her teacher told us she really should be in private. You have to talk it out. You have to reason and you have to listen but mostly you have to sacrifice for the sake of that child's wellbeing.[/quote]
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