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[quote=Anonymous]I have a similar type of child and i know this type of kid takes a lot of parental energy. Here are some things that work in my home: 1. Using a timer. For just about everything. If my child doesn't know a transition is coming, it's going to be hell... for me! 2. Incentive chart. DC gets rewarded for good behavior at the end of the week. Some kids can't wait till end of week so you will have to play with what works... but DC gets to watch a movie at the end of the week for good behavior. 3. Discussing expectations. Before we start our day, we talk about the schedule and expected behavior. We also discuss how to handle frustration, how to handle upset feelings before we start an activity. 4. Praise. We have to give lots of positive reinforcement for every small good behavior so he knows that this is what makes us happy and allows him to be praised. He likes praise, stickers, etc... we are lucky with that! 5. If things go south and we are having conflict with my ASD/ADHD child, I walk away. I tell him to sit quietly and have some thinking time. I really have meant to get a beanbag chair. It's on my list. But having a time out spot (don't call it that) with a comfy, sensory-pleasing item is nice for these types of kids. [/quote]
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