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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am one of these types most of the time.  I have no issues with those who are not, except for my spouse, and it will lead to a divorce..  Life is too short to be sitting around.  So, while I have no issues with those who are not, I probably could not be married to someone who is the opposite, which is where I am now.  [/quote]

I am YOU! Always annoyed with my DH because all he wants to do is sit or sleep. It was ok before kids because honestly there was little to take care of, but now all I see is laziness. If you don't have kids get out now! [/quote]

Why the hell do you type A women marry these type of men that are so different from you? Stick to your own kind and leave the rest of us alone. Thanks.[/quote]

Wow. Do you always get so angry about things on the internet?

A lot of times, in talking to my fellow Type A friends, in these situations... their husbands kept up with, and often encouraged, all the activity until after the wedding/or even may be children. So it's often a case of pretending to be another more active person, or a complete situation switch. Active people don't seek out someone they have to beg, barter, or coerce to hang out, and do things with them.
Maybe all these less type a and beta guys should be more upfront and honest that this is not a lifestyle they want to pursue long term, instead of tricking their spouses and becoming passive aggressive about their wishes after the marriage happens. 
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