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[quote=Anonymous]If my inlaws did this DH and I would shut it down immediately. No, people do not just show up with other people at our house. Your mother does it to you because you're a pushover. If she showed up at our house with an entourage we'd pull her aside and say "Mom, we told you when we talked about you coming that you could not bring people here. I don't care that you know them - WE do not, and it's our house. You can invite whoever you want to YOUR house, NOT ours." And then we'd go tell the people "I'm sorry - it seems there may have been a misunderstanding, but we can't host you. You're welcome to stay for drinks/dinner but we've only agreed to DH's mom as an overnight guest. If you'd like we'd be happy to get you the name of a couple of local hotels." And then we'd stand there staring at them while they made an immediate decision.[/quote]
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