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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom lives 5 hours away and whenever she comes to visit she always bring uninvited guests with her. [b]I have one spare bedroom in the basement with a TV room, play room , bathroom, seperate sitting room.[/b] Last thanksgiving she came with my stepdad in addition to her grandkids, half sister and her husband that we have never meet before. Last Thanksgiving there were 11 overnight guest in my basement. A few months before that she brought up 2 other relatives. This has been going on forever and it's draining because most times I don't want extra guests. I have even mentioned it to her . She assumes that because a person isnt a stranger to her that they are welcomed. She once brung  with her my brother girlfriend who was at the time a former unsure if active  drug user with no permission. She assumes because she is comfortable with a person that we will be. She a minister and feel that no one should be shunned.  I now have a 2.5 yr old and I hate for univited strangers to me to be in my house. When my small family travels we always stay in a hotel because we like our space. She is coming to visit in two weeks and I know at the last minute she will bring uninvited guests. I'm curious does this happen in other families and if so how do you handle this. I sometimes plan meet up locations to avoid having so many houseguests. [/quote]

Wow, that is a large basement- It sounds like a two bedroom apartment. [/quote]

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