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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op do you have any sense why he has changed in this way? Could he have anxiety or something? leaving the wedding and the guys' weekend early sound pretty weird and make me think his desire to be at home is more than just being an introvert.

In any case, I see how this would be really frustrating. If he just said he'd rather not go but you are welcome to go, or you could have an understanding that when people come over he will largely be at the grill and then put the kids to bed, fine. But grumping about everything would be super exhausting. Can you make more plans without him?[/quote]

Thanks so much for understanding! I'm a big believer that in a marriage you can't expect someone to change completely. I knew he was never a big politician over-the-top friendly type, and that never bothered me. But this has definitely gotten worse. It may be because there is very little downtime because of the kids. He also is in an open office environment and I recognize that takes a lot out of an introvert - basically having to be "on" at work all day. It may not sound like it in my regional post but I really do try to be understanding. I feel guilty about the resentment and want to figure out a middle ground.[/quote]

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