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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I prefer things neat, clean, organized. DH is messy and unorganized. We both WOH. Have 3 young kids. DH does load/unload the dishwasher - but leaves food in the sink when done with that and doesn't wipe counter. When I do dishes, I also wipe the counters and clean the sink. I end up cleaning the table and sweeping the floor after every meal. When I head to work before DH and he feeds the kids before school, I come home to a mess on the table and food/crumbs that have been on the floor all day. DH never thinks to change the sheets or towels. His mail and other papers are all over the house. Dresser piled high with his stuff. I try to keep things organized but am trying to accept DH is the way he is. We have a cleaning crew come every other week which helps some. If you are in a similar situation - how do you keep from getting frustrated and accept that things are the way they are?[/quote]

Can you leave him a list?  He just may not even think to clean the table and sweep up the crumbs.  Why not jut ASK him to change the sheets/towels?[/quote]

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