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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She needs to respond to his text (wtf, she's really going to ignore it?) and leave it right there. If he makes overtures she just needs to tell him it was a one time thing. It seems like she's being a bit dramatic about this whole thing, don't make yourself available for a play-by-play of this after your initial advice.[/quote]

She is very dramatic. Has been our entire relationship.
I've tried to be patient with her this last year because of the divorce, and she feeling everyone was judging her and leaving her out of things for being single.
I told her  she can't ignore his text.
I've also told her he probably isn't thinking too much about it but she's convinced he is because he still loves her and didn't want to get divorced.
I told her if she was so worried about his feelings she shouldn't have slept with him. Because of that I'm judging and not being understanding of her.
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I agree, it's doubtful he's pining after her the way she imagines he is. That's why she shouldn't even worry about how to let him down easy... He hasn't even asked for anything yet![/quote]

I told her that, that he probably hasn't given it a second thought, he just needed to relieve some stress.

But she says when she finally text him back  he thanked her for coming to his mum's funeral and that it meant a lot to him that  she would come even though they were divorce, and that his mum thought she was lovely.

To her that means he is pining.
I said you know him better, but it seems he's just being polite.  He's not saying we should get back together, and if he does just tell him you're happy to  support him as a friend, but anything beyond that would not be a good idea.
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