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[quote=Anonymous]She slept with ex husband.
They have been divorced nearly a year.  She initiated the divorce, but it was a relatively amicable split. No kids. They keep in touch very loosely via FB. His mum passed away, she went to the funeral. They ended up in bed together.
She calls me today  distressed and needing to process- in short she feels their hookup was more than just stress relief  comfort sex , but more intimate than that bordering on "love making".
She's now worried she may have accidentally stirred feelings and given him the false hope of rekindling their relationship.
She's  scared to tell him she doesn't  want anything beside the ONS because she doesn't want to  " hurt him when he's so vulnerable."
She's also refuse to respond to his text asking if she's okay, because she slipped out before he woke up. Apparently the has made plans for breakfast. I told her she at least needs to tell him that she;s fine.
I've got my own crap to deal with right now in my own marriage and don't really want to involve myself in this, but trying to  a good friend.
So what would you tell her to do, other than to grow up.
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