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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I noticed some  posters encouraging a wive or husband to stay in a marriage with a cheating spouse. I keep reading comments like " seek counseling" " work it though" and "don't get divorced"

Why would anyone advice a person to stay in a marriage with someone who cheated on them regardless if they are children involved? Some people just donot understand what cheating is and its impact to any relationship? Are the people encouraging this miserable and just want company? 
Is this a self-esteem problem? I have always believed  you lower self-worth staying in a relationship with a cheater. It's accepting mediocrity into your life.It's settling for the lowest. A person who cheats is a coward. Why would you want be with a coward? It's welcoming misery into you life. We have too many single men and women on the planet to have settle for a cheater.  Why lower your standards? 
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The poster who said the world isn't black and white had it right. I never thought cheating was a deal breaker for me. But it might be. I don't know. Physical abuse definitely is. But I can see almost everything else as symptoms of other problems.

It isn't so bad to be financially secure, have a friend, have a co-parent, all under one roof. If my husband was cheating on me, I'd know we had problems. It is worth it sometimes to figure out what those problems are. It wouldn't be just him.  There are always circumstances.[/quote]

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