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[quote=Anonymous]Praying my son (only 8) meets an accommodating wife in the future. I know you say your in laws are messy but it seems in laws can't do right for doing wrong on this board. If it's not one thing it's the other. 
I've had 4 kids (3 births) and each time I've known it would give both sets of parents so much joy to share the process with us. It's 1-2 weeks in your life. It is a stressful, yes (try doing it with 31 week premie twins and a 32 wk premie-my first). There are just some things in life that you grin and bear for the joy of others. 
I was beyond discombobulated, particularly with the twins, and still battling the effects of pre-eclampsia, ugh, but I smiled through the whole process knowing they were just so chuffed to be with their new grandchildren and that "this too shall pass". If you want to limit the time actually spent with them, have them come during your confinement and have your husband bring in a cleaner on the day before you arrive from hospital,  And perhaps weekly until everything calms down.
Trust me, I know it's hard but "big picture" and congratulations on the soon to be new arrival.[/quote]

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