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[quote=Anonymous]late 20's can be a rough time, it feels like everyone is pairing off and starting families, or getting on in their careers, and you may feel a bit left behind.  its a phase though, and once your friends are through it, and go through all the other life stuff, divorces, illnesses, accidents - you will re-connect with what you have in common.  i was actually very glad to not marry until my mid 30's, because my dh is so much better suited to me than my 20's ex's were.

for the medical stuff, it sucks, no doubt.  there are limitations on you that others do not have.  but there is so much you can still do.  you must focus on that.  when we struggled with infertility, my husband and I started traveling around the world, something our friends with babies could not do.  it was so amazing and such a gift.

i guess i'm saying, it gets better.  its great that you found the courage to leave the narcissist.  this actually bodes really well for your future, even if it feels painfully lonely now.  you will be so grateful not to be stuck with that guy in a few years when you look back on your life.

if you can, take some time off and travel.  even if its just a train ride across the country.  i'm sure you can find another nanny job when fall comes around again.  enjoy your freedom and you youth while you have it.

btw, after 5 years of infertility struggle we got pregnant.  i don't regret at all the awesome trips i took when i was getting over feeling sorry for myself.  you really don't know what life will bring you.[/quote]

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