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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I understand how you feel. I have cut my mom off.  If you have anger and negative emotions about your relationship, show yourself love, do what is best for you. She is not capable of loving you the way you need to be loved. Her abuse and rejection of you is a reflection on what a mess she is inside.  She is not going to change, she sees no need to change and she feels rewarded, in a sad, sick way, by treating you terribly.  You deserve to be loved, you deserve a happy life. You deserve a successful career. Don't let her or her actions take away from your happiness.  She has clearly demonstrated she is not capable of being a mother to you, go forth not expecting anything from her and you won't be disappointed.  Hold your head high, move onward and upward. All the best to you.[/quote]

Op here- thank you so much for your kind words. I've tried to change our relationship for about 4 years now but I'm just done. I truly do hate her which is awful to say but her actions have caused me to feel this way. She is a very manipulative person and is good at playing both sides. One day she will be calling me trying to chat and tell me about her new haircut, etc. and I think things are fine and then the next day, she's calling me to yell at me about something.

Today was 100% my breaking point. I feel bad because I know this will change my relationship with my siblings but I have to focus on myself. I'll be moving 4+ hours away in 3 months and I think that will be a good way for me to start focusing on moving on from her physical and emotional abuse. [/quote]

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