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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Title pretty much sums it up. I'm 27 and I honestly hate my mother and am to the point of cutting her out of my life completely. She had me when she was 19 and she struggled for a couple years, [b]married my step dad [/b]when I was 7 and now lives her dream life of having everything she wants. She was nasty to me growing up, very physically and emotionally abusive. It got worse when I was 13 and she had my younger sister. She would constantly call me names and put me down, throw things at me, hit me, etc. I just really started to hate her at that age and I never got over it. Now that I'm 27, I feel the same. I have a lot of hatred towards her for the way she treated me growing up and the things she would do to me. I don't even remember the last time her and I
Hugged or she told me she loved me. It's been at least 3-5 years. She treats my younger siblings (14 and 13) like they are her start over children. My sister wanted to go to the public high school next year (she's been in Montessori schools since pre school) and my mother literally said "no, you don't want to turn out like your sister.". I went to two years of community college but that's it however, I'm in a great career now making great money but it's still not good enough for her.

I live in a townhouse right now and will be moving out of state at the end of August. My lease is up in 3 weeks and [b]my dad [/b]told me it was ok for me to just move home for 3 months before I leave. An hour ago, my mom called me telling me "you aren't moving in here, we don't get along so figure something out". That was pretty much just it for me. I've tried to have some sort of a relationship with her for the sake of my siblings but I'm done trying. My boyfriend and I are talking about getting engaged soon and I wouldn't want my mother at my wedding, it's that bad.

I don't really know what I'm looking to get out of this post but just needed to get it all off my chest. [/quote]

You wanted to move in with your dad?[/quote]

Op here- no, my step dad. I call him "dad" and never call him my step dad. [/quote]

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