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[quote=Anonymous]We have been together 5 years, married for 3. 
Ever since we got together, I've felt incredibly uncomfortable around my in laws. They openly told DH when we first got together that I was just "a girl to pass the time" and I don't think they've ever adapted a different mindset. Anytime I go with DH to visit his family, I can only psych myself up to stay for maybe an hour or two. They don't want to involve me as a part of the family and it honestly hurts my feelings. I've been trying hard for 5 years to be closer to them, but I'm at my wits end after a stunt they recently pulled. They used to go on a family vacation every year to Cali.
This year, they asked DH if he would like to go. Get a timeshare, stay two weeks, and relax. Offered to pay and everything. I was very excited! Until I found out that the invitation was extended to DH only, and they explicitly told him in private if I wanted to go, I would pay for all my expenses separately.
I wouldn't care about paying for OUR own expenses, but singling me out is just the final straw. I don't know how to handle this. I'm starting to find a lot of disdain toward them. [/quote]

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