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[quote=Anonymous]Does he do it in a nagging tone or is it more like he's telling you as he's going through his own list of stuff to do? I know this may not be what you want to hear, but I'm impressed. My husband is great and does a lot of the actual work around the house but I'm the one that has to remember everything. Women typically have to do a lot of the management work. If he is just a checklist-style thinker and hats how he feels like he's on top of what's going on I don't see why that's a problem. If it's bothering you and you want to do something about it, I'd keep it lighthearted and joking, if you can. Either do a really dramatic victory dance and announce "already done--where's my gold star?", or go in for the high five, or say in a really ditzy voice while twirling your hair. "We have a dog?! I forgot!" That might make him see how the dynamic of him telling you what to do is a bit ridiculous. [/quote]
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