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[quote=Anonymous]I feel like you need to arrange a time for a serious conversation.  I would say to your DH that you recognize you've been nagging him, that you'd like to work to stop that behavior, but that in order to do that you two need to really talk about how you want your life to be and what type of parents you want.  Give each other a week or two to think about what is really important to you.

Then, sit down and talk.  Things like "There are a lot of chores that need to be done around the house, and I'd like to stop nagging you to do things.  What do you think makes sense to fall into your responsibility, my responsibility, and shared responsibilities?"  And "What do we want our evenings with our kids to look like?  I worry that I am getting distracted by chores and electronics, and not giving our kids the energy and attention that I want to give them.  What would you think about having "no electronics" from the hours of 6-8:30 pm?"  Etc.

Then, once you're on the same page, I absolutely think 10:20 is spot on!  [/quote]

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