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[quote=Anonymous]Stop it. SERIOUSLY! Your brother's wife is not "in charge" of remembering birthdays or acknowledging milestones, or of celebrating holidays. Your son's wife is not "in charge" of scheduling visits or remembering to call you every weekend. Stop enabling men to be forgetful/selfish. Stop blaming women for "failures" on this front. A man is in charge of his own relationships and his own family dynamics. He doesn't stop being a son, brother, cousin or uncle the second he gets married. It's not SIL's fault, it's not DIL's fault, it's not SIL's responsibility, it's not DIL's responsibility. And, at the end of the day, remember this: this is the son YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE RAISED. This is YOUR brother. This is YOUR family dynamic, and you can address it WITH HIM with *direct communication.*[/quote]
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