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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I was young. I was 25. I had not dated that many people. The man that I married is no longer there. DH was more out-going and attentive. I have changed too. I was more fun and carefree. But add in 3 children and work stress and life issues... but DH did more things and had friends. I honestly can't name ONE friend that DH has now. I find it weird and odd. All this stuff has added up and I just don't care for him that way anymore. [/quote]

This does not seem unsalvagable. You say that the big difference is that he used to do things and have friends. He hasn't changed to be abusive, lazy, a jerk, a cheater, etc. Just that he used to be a young guy with a lot of energy and a lot of free time. Now he is an older guy with a lot of responsibilities (which he seems to be attentive to) and fewer friends. You guys can definitely fall back in love. Maybe start by proposing one activity that you would like to do with him, arrange childcare, and plan the outing.  If you start putting in an effort, he may start putting in an effort. If you want him to have more friends, give him a push by inviting a couple over for dinner where you think the man might mesh well with your husband. These efforts are easier than getting a divorce. [/quote]

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