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[quote=Anonymous]Here's my take. He's lost his feelings for you, but he thinks that you're not going anywhere, so there's no impetus to change anything. He's probably absorbed in his role as a father (though it's possible too that there's someone else in his life). The more effort you make, the more comfortable he'll feel in maintaining the status quo. The tape on the bed might be the result of sleep deprivation. If your kids are waking up at night and he's become a lot more sensitive about being woken up, maybe you touching him at night wakes him up and hence the result. Still, even with that explanation, it seems like a pretty drastic thing to do. Is that normal for him? Even if he's lost his feelings for you, he may get them back, marriages go through phases. I think what I would do is stop trying and start ignoring him, and start seeking affection with friends/family. If this doesn't work, well, you have a network of people who will be there for you in your divorce. [/quote]
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