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[quote=Anonymous]Yup. Stay away and if he wants to reach out he will. I don't know why you think he would abandon his child. First, that is a parent/child relationship versus romantic - it's a different relationship. I can accept for example, ADHD with my child and know that could be a lifelong commitment but could easily see how I could not marry a spouse with ADHD, especially since most likely my child inherited it from me. Second, he is hopefully sharing any burdens with his wife versus it being the sole person if it was his romantic partner. Third, he has hopefully matured since then. Are you married with kids yourself? If so, I would think your experiences with first love helped you grow and handle things better with DH and any alternate path in the game of "what if" would mean you aren't with this DH and have the kids you have. If you aren't married with kids I can understand the nostalgia but think you are reaching to rekindle the connection.[/quote]
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