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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. There are many people that posted, so I am going to try to reply to as much as I can.

- I am getting treated for anxiety. I don't have it badly, and it only started while dating a my ex. I do see a therapist for it.

- My ex was a true narcissist. Started off nice until he became every controlling. Had to know my every move, tried to isolate my from friends that he disliked, talked badly about everyone ( overweight, ugly, uneducated, etc.). He thought highly of himself and put everyone down ( even his own family). He tried to make my goals his ( basically telling me when I will get married/have kids, etc.). Every time something happened or I stood up for myself, he would become very defensive, blame it on me, then berate me. He was very pushy with his wants/needs, and mine never mattered. He lied all the time. He was emotionally and mentally very abusive. There is so much more but I won't get into it.

- We have been dating for 3 months ( known him for about 4). So far things have wen going well but I guess I'm scared it will end up like my last ex. We do have similar goals, and get along very well. I don't think it's him per say. I think it's more just the fear of any guy I date becoming like my ex.

Up until my ex, I had good relationships. I never feared this. My ex was a awesome guy until about the 6 month mark. Then everything started going downhill.

F.y.i - Thanks for being the drinking police. I don't drink much, maybe once a month or so. I love how you assume I drink too much just because I happened to be tipsy while posting this. I didn't know there was a no drinking policy to post.

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