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[quote=Anonymous]In addition to marriage counseling, you need to work with a financial advisor. DH and I have had some similar challenges and I found having a 3rd party to work with us on financial goals beneficial - not just because it will help us meet our needs but also because it's a neutral 3rd party who's telling him what needs to be done and not me. When he balked at doing it, I could then take it to relationship counseling as an issue of him prioritizing his parents over our stability. That would then lead to a discussion on how his dysfunctional upbringing, how it was unhealthy and then how we could work together to get him to a more healthy place. It's been tough but over 20 years, the progress is amazing.[/quote]
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